When
you have “disaster” anything – job, relationship, neighbors, etc. – change your
today’s situation first. Before moving on – to a new living space, job,
relationship. It’s difficult to explain, I better give you an example.
If in the old apartment you had noisy neighbors, imagine in your mind quiet. I tried this approach when living above a boxing gym in Bayonne, NJ. Every time they started training (5pm–9pm), after initial period of frustration, I switched to helping myself. I imagined silence, thought about gym’s moving – to a better location. To prosper, but away from me.
I was sure I had a hand in this. Anyway, whatever were their plans irrespective of me, I improved my reality.
All the knowledge I’ve processed and applied over 15 years – is more in my gait, smile and air around me than in words.
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I have no hard theoretical proof it is so, but a lot of things from my experience show it is so.
Life is like your night dream in a lot of respects. Very malleable. You expect a dog in your dream to bite you, and it does. You expect him to wag his tail, and you will have a whole bucketful of wagging.
Leaving You with a Quote
It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.
Confucius
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