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Wednesday, December 4, 2019

My Tango Classes

Those of you who’ve read of my stressful vacation adventures will be glad to read this piece. About my tango classes.

How do I explain what they are? The enjoyment? For those who love chocolate – they are the best dark one. For coffee drinkers –

Tuesday, November 19, 2019

I am in a situation, when I cannot… (or On blaming)

Do you often think this or repeat this phrase to others? Unaware of the consequences? I do. Now – somewhat less.

I finally got it through my head that my thoughts and expectations create my ‘tomorrow’. And the title phrase will be creating more of the limiting fence. A phrase like this is projecting the situation I dislike into my tomorrow.

Tuesday, October 8, 2019

Thinking good thoughts about your partner/friend/child improves the relationship

I do not mean if he/she is thin and sickly, you should think, “he/she is Superman or Superwoman”.

Rather concentrate on good. Despite everything you will tell me, there is always some good. You know this. Your partner, child or a friend can be charming, quiet, a great professional, kind at heart – anything. 

Tuesday, October 1, 2019

Visualizing magic: Shopping cart incident

Example of January 11, 2019

Quite a few people in our condo complex store their folding carts in a garage under the building. We are no exception. Since storage in condos is scarce. Our blue cart is always leaning against a column next to our car.

Tuesday, September 24, 2019

I create my reality: example of fall 2016

Since one of my readers asked for more stories, I am happy to oblige. Especially because I love reading and sharing such stories. Sharing will be like throwing seeds in soil, on which something good will grow.

 Though it’s an old story, it matters not.

Talking of what’s important to an introvert partner

Often we find ourselves with partners who prefer to avoid conversations of important things and feelings.

Here is what works for me. My husband is a quiet type. He is either terrified to talk about such topics or prefers not to – thinking it useless, dangerous or something else. So, it is up to me to find a way out.

Wednesday, September 18, 2019

How to use visualization and expectation with gadgets

Here is a purely practical piece for you today. Pure, as Starbucks coffee.

A simple thing, but very useful. We all like our gadgets – kindles, laptops, phones, printers… Most of the time the gadgets are healthy, but sometimes they cough, or just show their temper. Errors, no Internet connection, and so on.

Here is a helpful trick for that.

Monday, September 9, 2019

More examples of successful visualizations: fly trap story and source of everyday noise disappears

Since I promised to share my successful visualizations, here are some more. One – the most recent and already a favorite and the other – my all-time favorite. Because of the scale and the fact that I was sure, I had a hand in this, it was no coincidence.

Tuesday, September 3, 2019

Visualizing magic: Example of August 28, 2019

Though there is no elegant storefront yet, only bare walls, I decided to write the first post anyway. Dive into the useful stuff at once. I know my friends will stop by; a few more will wander in for support and inspiration, so we’ll have a cozy company here. 

Now – to today’s visualizing example. I love reading others’ accounts, I expect you do too. So, visualizing. Big and small. For catching a fly, for buying a house.

On Being Tired